My Philosphy

Why I am The Heart Whisperer
&
How I Can Help You Find True Love

I am the Heart Whisperer because my calling in life is to help men and women open their hearts so they can experience more love. It is like a whisper because you can't see it and feeling it is often very subtle.

But as quiet as the opening of a heart is, the impact is immense.

The more heart you put into your relationships, the happier and more fulfilled you'll be.

There is an absolute, direct correlation.

You can't get around it.

If you want a great relationship, you must be willing to open your heart and risk being vulnerable.

The Course In Miracles says at any given time we are experiencing love or fear.

When we are in a state of fear, for whatever reason, our hearts are shut down, often in an effort to protect ourselves.

I think of it is like an anemone. It's beautiful when it's open, but delicately vulnerable. You poke it, even slightly and it will close up tight. Our hearts are like that.

Rarely does ones heart burst wide open, able to withstand the exposure that entails. So most people need to take baby steps, opening just a bit, seeing how it feels, then taking another baby step.

Eventually, connecting with others, heart-to-heart, not only becomes easy, but preferable to the isolation of years of supposed safety.

My job is to assist you to take baby steps toward a fully open heart so you can experience the rapture that is possible when love is fully yours.

It is my honor to offer you my heart, to take you by the hand and show you how to take the baby steps toward loving freely.

You No Longer Exude That Marvelous
Falling-In-Love Energy

I've noticed, as I've talked with successful singles across the country, that they don't exude that feminine or masculine energy that causes them to be drawn to each other with that marvelous magnetic attraction. You know what I mean, the kind of attractions that gets your blood flowing and your toes tingling.

How long has it been since you felt that tingle?

Typical thinking about dating hides a serious misconception. The misconception is that all you need to do is meet the right person, then everything will take care of itself, love will happen, and you prance off to the castle, hand-in-hand, living happily-every-after.

That's pure malarkey! And you know it as well as I do.

The real truth is that your energy has shut down. from years of self-protection and / or lack of practice. If you're a woman you aren't exuding that magical woman energy that transfixes men. And if you're a man, your masculinity is not broadcasting to women, and inspiring interest in you. Bottom line, you're no longer intriguing.

So when you get together for that first date, not much happens and you think they're not the right person for you. How can either of you know when you're both sitting there emanating the energy of a rock?

Of Course You Need Dating Skills...
But You Need Something Even More Essential

You can't get back out there without the basic dating skills of being more attractive, of sparkling conversation, of charm and confidence. I'll teach you all you need to know in those and other categories. But if your Feminine Energy or your Masculine Energy isn't flowing, no amount of training is going to get you noticed in the way you want. In fact, if your energy is shut down, if you suffer from Clogged Heart Syndrome™ –also known as Emotional Plaque™ –you're going to be almost invisible. Maybe you know what that feels like. It isn't a very good feeling, is it?

Yes, you are probably pleasant, maybe even interesting, but don't you want to be tantalizing enough to be truly attractive.

My job is to help you develop and hone your dating skills, to build your dating confidence, and polish the package you present so you are sparkling. But all that won't do much good if your energy is shut down. So my focus, as you learn all those other necessary skills, is to show you how you can Jump Start Your Heart® and get that fantastic, sexy energy flowing once again.

I want you to be fully prepared, with all pistons firing, ready to capture the attention and heart of Mr. Right. It's what you want and what we want for you. Do each step that's outlined on the right side of this page and you'll have everything you need to create a relationship that is better than anything you've experienced before.

I'm here to help you have the confidence and skills to enjoy the relationship of your dreams. Inspiring you to love, The Heart Specialist

Kara is an expert at SelfGrowth. com as well as a contributing author of 101 Great Ways Ways To Improve Your Life along with Jack Canfield, Richard Carlson, John Gray, Bob Proctor and Alan Cohen, published by SelfGrowth.com: