Find That ONE Thing That Has Kept You From Having The Relationship You Want
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So far, you know you haven't been able to do this alone, and thankfully, now you don't have to. We at Dating Success Technology will support and guide you, step-by-step to give you the confidence and skills to attract the woman you're looking for.
You'll know how well you're doing after you take this quiz. Notice which questions you would have liked a higher score. This is not a problem because it only means you've become aware of something you can fix... and more easily than you think.
If you really do want to finally have the relationship of your dreams, we're here to show you exactly what to do to make that a reality.
Base your score on the statements in red.
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9 - 7 = definitely true
6 - 4 = moderately true
3 - 1 = not at all true
1)I am thoughtful of other's wishes, desires, needs and wants.
Do you consider what others need and want? In past relationships was it easy, enjoyable, and natural to consider what your partner wanted? Do you get pleasure out of being thoughtful and kind?
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2) I am respectful of others.
Do you speak to others in a respectful manner? Are you considerate of others feelings? In past relationships did you communicate with your partner as a respected equal and someone you admired?
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3) I take time for myself.
Do you take the time to do things for yourself? Do you allow yourself the simple pleasures that make you feel good? Do you eat well, get enough sleep, exercise regularly? Do you take time to relax? Do you nourish your mind?
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4) I am playful.
Are you able to let your boyish spirit come out and romp? Do you look for opportunities to dance and tease? Do you make time to be with friends? When you were in a relationship did you make a point to play and flirt with your partner, making sure that she didn't take life too seriously, making time for vacations, time with friends, time to dance and celebrate?
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5) I go out of my way to compliment others.
Do you enjoy telling others that they look good, that they did a job well, that they're smart or capable? When you were in a relationship did you look for opportunities to let your partner know you found her attractive, capable and smart?
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6) I'm good at making others feel special.
Do you let others know what's special about them? When you were in a relationship were you considerate of what your partner's soul needed from you?
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7) I go out of my way to let the people I care about know they are important to me.
Do you tell your family and friends that they matter to you? Do you share the reasons why? When you were in a relationship did you let your partner know, on a regular basis, how she made your life better?
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8)I encourage women to enjoy being women.
Do you look for ways to help women feel good about being a woman? When you were in a relationship did you look for ways to make your partner feel beautiful, attractive, special and that you loved what made her different than you?
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9) I am verbally appreciative.
Do you think to let others know they did a good job? Do you thank people for being kind or thoughtful? Do you let your family and friends know that you're happy they're in your life? When you were in a relationship did you make a point to appreciate your partner for the things she did for you, for how good she was at her job, for how creative she was, for how thoughtful and considerate and loving she was?
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10) I am generous with my money.
Do you enjoy spending money on the people you care about? Do you enjoy spending money on yourself? When you were in a relationship did you enjoy putting a smile on your partner's face with special purchases, occasional surprises and even the day-to-day expenses of life? Or do you hoard money, resent spending on others?
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11) I am generous with my time.
Do you like taking time to be with family and friends? Do you offer to work on projects that will benefit others? When you were in a relationship did you enjoy spending time with your partner and doing things with and for her?
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12) I practice gratitude.
Do you regularly make note of what you're grateful for? Do you let God (whatever God is to you) know how grateful you are for the things you have and even for simply being alive?
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13) I express with my words and actions how much I care for others.
Do you tell your family and friends that you love them, that they matter to you, that they're important to you? Do you do so on a regular basis? Do you occasionally, out of the blue, pick up the phone and express your heartfelt affection for them? When you were in a relationship, did you tell you partner, on a regular basis, that you loved her, that you thought she was wonderful, that you were lucky to have her in your life, that your life would not be quite as good without her? When you were in a relationship did you give lots of physical affection, hugs, hand holding, touching, kisses on the back of the neck?
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14) I take good care of my body.
Do you eat well, sleep enough, exercise, keep your weight at a healthy level? Do you show the world, and the women you date, that you respect and honor your body?
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15) I have a positive, happy attitude.
Do you smile easily, are you playful with others, do you feel like life is good and only gets better? Are people happy to have you around? When you were in a relationship were you a blessing to have around, did you do your best to buoy the spirits of your partner, trying to make your life together as good as it could possibly be?
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16) I communicate with clarity, confidence and compassion.
Do you make a point to speak to others with forethought, so that your communications are received in the way you intend? Do you pay attention to how others respond to what you say? When you were in a relationship did you put in the effort it took to be sure that what you wanted to communicate was understood?
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17) I listen with heartfelt respect.
Do you listen closely to what others are saying to you, letting them know you care about what they're communicating? Do you make eye-contact, not looking around for someone more interesting to talk to? When you were in a relationship did you repeat back to them what you heard, making sure they communicated to you what they wanted to, and giving them the comfort of knowing you cared enough to want to know what they were saying? Or do you look for your first opportunity to jump in and say what you want to say, ignoring what the other person is trying to communicate to you?
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18) My sexual energy is healthy.
Do you have a healthy respect for your sexuality? Do you enjoy the sensual pleasures of food, beautiful things, colors, smells, even the feel of a warm breeze on your skin? Do you allow life to be enjoyed rather than endured? When you were in a relationship were you a sensitive lover paying attention to her needs and desires? Did you go out of your way to be sexually playful and erotically creative with your partner? Were you tender and caring, noticing her moods and what would be appropriate for her to feel loved by you?
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19) I feed my mind.
Do you regularly read things that enhance your level of knowledge and wisdom? Do you go out of your way to learn new things? Do you look for that which will inspire you? Do you express your creativity? When you were in a relationship did you encourage each other to continue to learn new things, then share what you'd learned, staying interesting and interested?
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20) I am always growing, working toward becoming the best person I can possibly be.
Do you look at life's experiences, especially the uncomfortable or painful ones, as opportunities to grow? Do you read books, take workshops and go out of your way to understand yourself so that you can be a happier, more effective person? Do you take full responsibility for your outcome, no matter what? When you were in a relationship were you in the habit of seeing both sides of the dance, how everything that happened between you was partly your doing and partly hers? Did you understand that relationship, more than anything else in life, is the greatest challenge and therefore, the greatest opportunity to learn and grow? Or do you tend to blame others for what's going on for you, assuming they are the cause of your reactions?
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21) I celebrate being a man.
Are you grateful to be alive, are you in awe of the universe, life, and your God-given gift of being a man, with your ability to live life with gusto? When you were in a relationship did you use the love you shared to honor the gift of your humanness, to squeeze everything possible out of the life you shared?
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The reasons some are successful at dating while others are not might seem like a mystery, but it doesn't have to be so. There are ways of being, things you can do and say – some very subtle, but easy to learn – that can make all the difference.
A High Score Equals Desirability
This test is designed to help you become aware of things you might not have considered to be part of what is required to be the most attractive man you can possibly be. The results will hopefully inspire you to improve your skills in the areas where your scores are less than you'd like. No guilt is allowed, just inspiration. Remember, we're here to help. Be aware, however, that the lower your score, the more you are sabotaging your dating success and the more you need our course, How To Stop Sabotaging Your Dating Success .
A High Score Means You Won't Forget
Here's the reason you'll want to develop as high a score as possible. If you're like most men, when you go on a date you tend to get a bit nervous. The more attracted you are the more nervous you'll be. When you're nervous you revert to automatic behavior. If that automatic behavior is not as appealing as it could be, maybe even turning women off, you're not going to be looking your best and you could very well chase off the perfect woman. So improving your dating and relating skills, and turning those qualities into habits will cause you to be much more desirable.
