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You'll know how well you're doing after you take this quiz. Notice which questions you would have liked a higher score. This is not a problem because it only means you've become aware of something you can fix... and more easily than you might think.
If you really do want to finally have the relationship of your dreams, we're here to show you exactly what to do to make that a reality.
Base your score on the 21 statements in red.
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9 - 7 = definitely true
6 - 4 = moderately true
3 - 1 = not at all true
1)I am thoughtful of other's wishes, desires, needs and wants.
Do you consider what others need and want? In past relationships was it easy, enjoyable, and natural to consider what your partner wanted? Do you get pleasure out of being thoughtful and kind?
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2) I am respectful of others.
Do you speak to others in a respectful manner? Are you considerate of others feelings? In past relationships did you treat your partner as a respected equal? And you don’t play the "male bashing game" with your friends.
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3) I am good at nurturing myself.
Do you take the time to be good to yourself? Do you allow yourself the simple pleasures that make you feel good? Do you eat well, get enough sleep and exercise regularly? Do you take time to relax? Do you nourish your mind?
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4) I am playful.
Are you able to let your childish spirit come out and romp? Do you look for opportunities to dance and even be a little silly? Do you make time to be with friends? When you were in a relationship did you make a point to play and flirt with your partner, making sure that he didn't take life too seriously? Have you encouraged your past partners to make time for vacations, time with friends, time to dance and celebrate?
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5) I go out of my way to notice the best qualities in others; and also bringing them out and acknowledging them to enhance their self-esteem.
Do you enjoy telling others that they look good, that they did a job well, that they're smart or capable? When you were in a relationship did you look for opportunities to let your partner know you found him attractive, capable and smart?
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6) I'm good at making others feel special.
Do you let others know what's special about them? When you were in a relationship were you considerate of what your partner's soul needed from you?
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7) I go out of my way to invite laughter into my life.
Do you look for opportunities to laugh? Do you offer humorous anecdotes and share that new joke you heard? Do you go to funny movies with friends? Do you laugh easily? In your past relationship(s) did you enjoy laughing with your partner, sharing funny stories, movies and jokes?
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8)I enjoy giving men the opportunity to be my hero.
Do you look for ways to let men do things for you? When you were in a relationship did you look for ways that your partner could help you solve problems, fix things or use his abilities, intelligence and skills to impress you?
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9)) I spend my money on worthwhile people and things.
Do you enjoy spending money on the people you care about? Do you enjoy spending money on yourself? When you were in a relationship did you enjoy putting a smile on your partner's face with special purchases, occasional surprises and even occasionally paying for the day-to-day expenses of life?
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10) I am generous with my time.
Do you like taking time to be with family and friends? Do you offer to work on projects that will benefit others? When you were in a relationship did you enjoy spending time with your partner, doing things he enjoyed, and doing things for him? Did you invite past partners to join you to do things that you enjoy?
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11) I am verbally appreciative.
Do you think to let others know when they did a good job? Do you thank people for being kind or thoughtful? Do you let your family and friends know that you are happy they are in your life? When you were in a relationship did you make a point to appreciate your partner for the things he did for you, for how good he was at his job, for how creative he was, for how thoughtful and considerate and loving he was?
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12) I practice gratitude.
Do you regularly make note of what you're grateful for? Do you let the Universe or God (whatever God is to you) know how grateful you are for the things you have and even for simply being alive?
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13) I express with my words and actions how much I care for family, friends, and partners.
Do you tell your family and friends that you love them, that they matter to you, that they're important to you? Do you show them on a regular basis? Do you occasionally, out of the blue, pick up the phone and express your heartfelt affection for them? Do you enjoy making the people around you happy? When you were in a relationship, did you tell your partner on a regular basis that you loved him, that you thought he was wonderful, that you were lucky to have him in your life, and that your life would not be quite as good without him? And did you give lots of physical affection, hugs, hand holding, touching, kisses on the back of the neck?
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14) I take good care of my body.
Do you eat well, sleep enough, exercise, keep your weight at a healthy level? Do you show the world, and the men you date, that you respect and honor your body?
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15) I have a positive, optimistic attitude.
Do you smile easily, are you playful with others, do you feel like life is good and likely to get better? Are people happy to have you around? When you were in a relationship were you a joy to be around? Did you do your best to buoy the spirits of your partner and try to make your life together as good as possible?
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16) I communicate with clarity, confidence and compassion.
Do you make a point to speak to others with forethought, so that your communications are received in the way you intend? Do you pay attention to how others respond to what you say? When you were in a relationship before, did you put in the effort to make certain that your words, intention, and heart’s desire were understood?
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17) I listen with heartfelt respect.
Do you listen closely to what others are saying to you, letting them know you care about what they're communicating? Do you make eye-contact, not looking around for someone more interesting to talk to? When you were in a relationship did you repeat back to them what you heard, making sure they communicated to you what they wanted to, and giving them the comfort of knowing you cared enough to want to know what they were saying?
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18) My sexual energy is flowing.
Do you allow yourself the enjoyment of being a sexual being, even when you don't have a partner? Do you enjoy the sensual pleasures of food, beautiful things, colors, smells, even the feel of a warm breeze on your skin? Do you allow life to be enjoyed rather than endured? When you were in a relationship did you go out of your way to be sexually playful and erotically enthused to share your sexuality with your partner?
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19) I celebrate my aliveness.
Do you dance in your living room (naked or in something sexy), grateful to be alive (or the equivalent). Are you in awe of your ability to feel your emotions, all of them, to the depths of your being? Are you in awe of the universe, life, and your God-given gift of being a woman When you were in a relationship did you use the love you shared to honor the gift of your humanness, to squeeze everything possible out of the life you shared?
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20) I feed my mind, heart and soul.
Do you look at life's experiences, especially the uncomfortable or painful ones, as opportunities to grow? Do you read books, take workshops and go out of your way to understand yourself so that you can be a happier, more effective person? Do you take full responsibility for the outcomes that result from your attitudes and actions, no matter what? When you were in a relationship were you in the habit of seeing both sides of “the dance,” how everything that happened between you was partly your doing and partly his? Do you understand that relationship, more than anything else in life, is the greatest challenge and therefore, the greatest opportunity for you to learn, grow, and have more of what you want in life?
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21) I am always growing, working toward becoming the best person I can possibly be.
Do you look at life's experiences, especially the uncomfortable or painful ones, as opportunities to grow? Do you read books, take workshops and go out of your way to understand yourself so that you can be a happier, more effective person? Do you take full responsibility for your outcome, no matter what? When you were in a relationship were you in the habit of seeing both sides of the dance, how everything that happened between you was partly your doing and partly his? Did you understand that relationship, more than anything else in life, is the greatest challenge and therefore, the greatest opportunity to learn and grow?
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The reasons some women are successful at dating and developing satisfying relationships while others are not might seem like a mystery, but it really isn’t. There are ways of being, things you can do and say that will make all the difference. Click the submit button to learn your overall score, how it likely to have affected your past dating experiences, and how to have the dating success you want.
