1) I am thoughtful of other's wishes, desires, needs and wants.

Do you consider what others need and want? In past relationships was it easy, enjoyable, and natural to consider what your partner wanted? Do you get pleasure out of being thoughtful and kind?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
You focus on what you want and expect the women you date to do the same. You're perceived as self-centered and are oblivious of how you come across. If you don't get many second dates, you could be this man and not know it.

How we can help you:
With simple exercises we'll help you develop a new perspective of concern for others, which in turn, will make you extremely attractive to most every woman you meet.

2) I am respectful of others.

Do you speak to others in a respectful manner? Are you considerate of others feelings? In past relationships did you communicate with your partner as a respected equal and someone you admired?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you're ever condescending, belittling or cruel to a date or to anyone in her presence, or if you tell a story about how you treated someone in those ways, she'll write you off and never want to see you again.

How we can help you:
Too often, because the workplace is so competitive, you don't realize how you treat others. How you behave on a date needs to shift if you want women to see you as exceptional. We'll show you how to make that shift.

3) I take time for myself.

Do you take the time to do things for yourself? Do you allow yourself the simple pleasures that make you feel good? Do you eat well, get enough sleep, exercise regularly? Do you take time to relax? Do you nourish your mind?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you're a workaholic, stressed, rushed and unable to stop and smell the roses you're not going to be a man women will want to get to know better.

How we can help you:
When you meet a new woman she's looking for someone who is self-assured but loving. Not a marshmallow, not at all, but someone who makes her feel good just being in your presence. We'll teach you these simple skills.

4) I am playful.

Are you able to let your boyish spirit come out and romp? Do you look for opportunities to dance and tease? Do you make time to be with friends? When you were in a relationship did you make a point to play and flirt with your partner, making sure that she didn't take life too seriously, making time for vacations, time with friends, time to dance and celebrate?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you're too serious or too self-conscious to truly let go you'll miss the chance to make your date feel relaxed and comfortable with you. And being playful makes you seem happy and fun to be with.

How we can help you:
A lot of what's required to change is awareness. We'll show you simple exercises that will lighten your spirit and help you be more fun.

5) I go out of my way to compliment others.

Do you enjoy telling others that they look good, that they did a job well, that they're smart or capable? When you were in a relationship did you look for opportunities to let your partner know you found her attractive, capable and smart?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you're oblivious or insensitive to other people's need to be noticed, you're missing a wonderful opportunity to show that you're a kind and sensitive person.

How we can help you:
There are a variety of things you can do to transform your energy on a date. We'll teach you simple techniques that will help you create a loving relationship.

6) I'm good at making others feel special.

Do you let others know what's special about them? When you were in a relationship were you considerate of what your partner's soul needed from you?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
When you're too busy with life to take the time to acknowledge the little things that matter it will show up in how women perceive you. And it won't be good.

How we can help you:
The best way to let a woman know you have a loving spirit is to do things to make her feel special. When you do that you'll be someone she'll want to get to know better.

7) I go out of my way to let the people I care about know they are important to me.

Do you tell your family and friends that they matter to you? Do you share the reasons why? When you were in a relationship did you let your partner know, on a regular basis, how she made your life better?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
Obviously, if you're too focused on your job or your to-do list to find the humor in every-day life, you're not going to be someone women will want to date and get to know better.

How we can help you:
This seems like it would be obvious that everyone looks for opportunities to laugh but women tell us how often they meet men who just are way too serious. We will teach you how to lighten up and enjoy life more. It's easier than you might think.

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8) I encourage women to enjoy being women.

Do you look for ways to help women feel good about being a woman? When you were in a relationship did you look for ways to make your partner feel beautiful, attractive, special and that you loved what made her different than you?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
More than anything, women need to know you value them as women. If you're oblivious to what little things you could do to let her feel good about being a woman, you'll miss out on the greatest opportunity to stand out as an exceptional man.

How we can help you:
This is one of the most often overlooked ways a man can stand out as extra special. We'll show you how to make her feel like your queen. If you balk at this, then you might as well quit dating because it's not going to happen for you.

9) I am verbally appreciative.

Do you think to let others know they did a good job? Do you thank people for being kind or thoughtful? Do you let your family and friends know that you're happy they're in your life? When you were in a relationship did you make a point to appreciate your partner for the things she did for you, for how good she was at her job, for how creative she was, for how thoughtful and considerate and loving she was?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you don't show appreciation to the women you date, you'll come off as insensitive. Women need to feel appreciated because it's their way of knowing they made you happy. Without that, they'll move on to the next man, until they find one who appreciates them and makes them feel good about being a woman.

How we can help you:
This is one of the most important skills you can develop. Surprisingly, this simple thing could be exactly the thing that makes you stand out as the man she wants.

10) I am generous with my money.

Do you enjoy spending money on the people you care about? Do you enjoy spending money on yourself? When you were in a relationship did you enjoy putting a smile on your partner's face with special purchases, occasional surprises and even the day-to-day expenses of life? Or do you hoard money, resent spending on others?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you're not generous you're not likely to be kind spirited. There's a natural flow to a generous spirit and women will pick up on it without realizing what's going on.

How we can help you:
This may not make sense but if you're generous with your money you'll learn a lot about a woman and what she's looking for. If she appreciates your generosity, rather than expecting it, you need to know this about any woman you might be seriously considering.

11) I am generous with my time.

Do you like taking time to be with family and friends? Do you offer to work on projects that will benefit others? When you were in a relationship did you enjoy spending time with your partner and doing things with and for her?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
Are you hard to pin down for a date, being too busy with work and your social life to fit a new woman into your life? Obviously, this will not bode well to future dates, even if a woman does find you attractive.

How we can help you:
This is pretty obvious. If you don't have the ability to relax and just be, to let go of the concerns and worries of life and work, you won't be an appealing companion. We'll show you some simple exercises that will teach you to be more in the moment, and a more enjoyable companion.

12) I practice gratitude.

Do you regularly make note of what you're grateful for? Do you let God (whatever God is to you) know how grateful you are for the things you have and even for simply being alive?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
Being grateful causes your spirit to be brighter and even though women might not realize it, they'll "feel" that you're different than most other men they're meeting.

How we can help you:
Learning to incorporate gratitude into your way of being will make you more attractive than just about anything else you could do.

13) I express with my words and actions how much I care for others.

Do you tell your family and friends that you love them, that they matter to you, that they're important to you? Do you do so on a regular basis? Do you occasionally, out of the blue, pick up the phone and express your heartfelt affection for them? When you were in a relationship, did you tell you partner, on a regular basis, that you loved her, that you thought she was wonderful, that you were lucky to have her in your life, that your life would not be quite as good without her? When you were in a relationship did you give lots of physical affection, hugs, hand holding, touching, kisses on the back of the neck?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you're uncomfortable with your words of love, or assume "she should know", it won't show up as a problem for a while, but eventually, if you don't learn to express your feelings, it very well might end up hurting you down the line.

How we can help you:
Being verbally expressive is something that most women need and if you can develop this skill, you'll know how to melt her heart any time you want to. And she'll feel special and beautiful. We'll show you how to ease into this skill so it becomes a natural way for you to be.

14) I take good care of my body.

Do you eat well, sleep enough, exercise, keep your weight at a healthy level? Do you show the world, and the women you date, that you respect and honor your body?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you either forget to do the things you know you should or are unaware and oblivious to what you ought to do to stay healthy, vibrant and attractive, you will not be attractive to the women you meet. Women don't want a body builder but the healthier and vibrant you appear the more appealing you'll be.

How we can help you:
There's no getting around it, if you're overweight and out of shape, you are definitely sabotaging your dating success. When you work with us on all the other aspects of what you need to become that powerful magnet, you'll be more inspired and energized to get your butt active. We'll work with you every step of the way.

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15) I have a positive, happy attitude.

Do you smile easily, are you playful with others, do you feel like life is good and only gets better? Are people happy to have you around? When you were in a relationship were you a blessing to have around, did you do your best to buoy the spirits of your partner, trying to make your life together as good as it could possibly be?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
No woman wants a sour puss. So lighten up... don't take life so seriously. If you're negative and focused on what's wrong instead of what's right women will see you as a drain on their energy. And if they see you being this way on a first or second date, imagine how unappealing the thought of a long-term relationship would be.

How we can help you:
Developing a happy, positive attitude will help you become a magnet than just about anything else you can do. We have lots of fun ways to help you do just that.

16) I communicate with clarity, confidence and compassion.

Do you make a point to speak to others with forethought, so that your communications are received in the way you intend? Do you pay attention to how others respond to what you say? When you were in a relationship did you put in the effort it took to be sure that what you wanted to communicate was understood?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you ramble on, not noticing how you're being perceived, forgetting that communication is always a two-way interaction, the women you date will think you're not interested in knowing who they are or what they think.

How we can help you:
Women speak a different language than men do. We'll teach you the difference so you can choose when to speak her language, and how to get her to hear you when you need to speak your language. We'll teach you how to do that in ways that are much more effective than how you've done it in the past.

17) I listen with heartfelt respect.

Do you listen closely to what others are saying to you, letting them know you care about what they're communicating? Do you make eye-contact, not looking around for someone more interesting to talk to? When you were in a relationship did you repeat back to them what you heard, making sure they communicated to you what they wanted to, and giving them the comfort of knowing you cared enough to want to know what they were saying? Or do you look for your first opportunity to jump in and say what you want to say, ignoring what the other person is trying to communicate to you?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you're in the habit of listening with half an ear, pretending to pay attention, or focusing on what you want to say next, you're not going to be a very intriguing and interesting date. Everyone feels more important when you listen well.

How we can help you:
Becoming a great listener is the most effective way to be a great communicator. There are some very simple techniques that will put you way ahead of the other men she's meeting.

18) My sexual energy is healthy.

Do you have a healthy respect for your sexuality? Do you enjoy the sensual pleasures of food, beautiful things, colors, smells, even the feel of a warm breeze on your skin? Do you allow life to be enjoyed rather than endured? When you were in a relationship were you a sensitive lover paying attention to her needs and desires? Did you go out of your way to be sexually playful and erotically creative with your partner? Were you tender and caring, noticing her moods and what would be appropriate for her to feel loved by you?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If it's been a long time since you've had a healthy sexual relationship you may be out of touch with how to interact with a woman in ways that make her feel attractive but not as a sex object. There's a fine line that you need to know how to negotiate.

How we can help you:
This is tricky but we'll show you how to let your healthy sexual energy flow in a playful way but that makes her feel safe and secure in your presence.

19) I feed my mind.

Do you regularly read things that enhance your level of knowledge and wisdom? Do you go out of your way to learn new things? Do you look for that which will inspire you? Do you express your creativity? When you were in a relationship did you encourage each other to continue to learn new things, then share what you'd learned, staying interesting and interested?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you ignore learning, except in your field of work, and instead, watch TV or doing the same things you always do, never seeking that which is new, you're not very interesting or stimulating. Consequently, women won't want to go out on a second date. remember, a second date says she's interested in getting to know you better.

How we can help you:
The fact that you're here, willing to invest in your personal growth, says you're on your way to being the most interesting, fascinating man she's ever met. That's when you'll be a wildly powerful magnet.

20) I am always growing, working toward becoming the best person I can possibly be.

Do you look at life's experiences, especially the uncomfortable or painful ones, as opportunities to grow? Do you read books, take workshops and go out of your way to understand yourself so that you can be a happier, more effective person? Do you take full responsibility for your outcome, no matter what? When you were in a relationship were you in the habit of seeing both sides of the dance, how everything that happened between you was partly your doing and partly hers? Did you understand that relationship, more than anything else in life, is the greatest challenge and therefore, the greatest opportunity to learn and grow? Or do you tend to blame others for what's going on for you, assuming they are the cause of your reactions?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
You tend to blame others for what's going on for you, assuming they are the cause of your reactions. When you blame others for your outcome there's no balance when things aren't going the way you'd like so you can't see how you are at least partly responsible for what's going on.

How we can help you:
We are here for you, to show you how to become your very best, most magnetic self... ready to enjoy the love that is awaiting you. Let us help you achieve all your relationship goals.

21) I celebrate being a man.

Are you grateful to be alive, are you in awe of the universe, life, and your God-given gift of being a man, with your ability to live life with gusto? When you were in a relationship did you use the love you shared to honor the gift of your humanness, to squeeze everything possible out of the life you shared?

How a low score could sabotage your dating success:
If you live each day blind to the fantastic diversity of life that swirls around you, your nose too close to the grindstone to see what's really worthwhile, forgetting to notice that you are a gift to this planet, how would you expect a woman to see what's great about you?

How we can help you:
Most people spend too much of their time asleep, missing out on how fabulous it is to be alive. You don't know it yet, but you really have something to celebrate. We look forward to sharing our techniques with you.

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