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January 30, 2008

Thank you to all of you who wrote to offer "get well" wishes. I just love hearing from you. I'm still under the weather but feeling a little stronger every day.

In this issue:
1) You're Invited To A Special Event
2) New President Of Dating Success Technology
3) Some Private Sharing
4) Men's Dating Success Newsletter
5) Committed Couple's Newsletter

1) You're Invited To A Special Event
If you've ever felt insecure about doing the wrong thing on a date, you'll get your chance to learn how you might be unknowingly harming your dating success. On Thursday, February 7th, you're invited to join us for a fr*ee teleseminar. The topic will be "How You Might Be Sabotaging Your Dating Success". We'll be sending notices about the call-in information. Go here to listen to the teleseminar

2) New President Of Dating Success Technology
If you've visited DatingSuccessTechnology.com you probably noticed that Chris Manning (that's my fiance') has become President. I'm really excited about this because he's so good at whatever he puts his mind to. We work well together and the synergism of our energy will be of great benefit to what DST offers now and in the future.

2) Some Private Sharing
I got an email from a woman I'll call "C" asking why I didn't say more about my relationship with Chris. One reason is that I've tried to protect his privacy. Another, and more important reason, is that he's so unusually loving, thoughtful and wants to talk about every aspect of our relationship (sometimes even more than I do), I don't want anyone to think that other men can be "taught" to be this way. But now that he's the new President of DST, I think I'll go ahead and be more open.

One of the questions that was posed in C's email was what attracted me to Chris and how much his material security played into it. First, I will say that I dated a very nice man right before meeting Chris. He lived in an apartment, his bike hanging on the way. It felt like he was a college guy and that was very much a turn-off. I wanted a man who was financially stable. Even though I'm not great
at handling money, I do own my own home and being a bit traditional in my thinking, I need to look up to a man. So what he does and how good he is at it, does play into my ability to respect him. My problem is when women get so hung up on how much a man needs to make. They come up with a list that he needs to make a mill*ion a year, live in Beverly Hills, travel first class, and take them to
fancy parties. This is not a puppy you're ordering. A good question is WHY do you want those things. And what do you have to offer this man who can probably get any woman he wants.

Chris is unusual in that personal growth is of top priority to him. I told him be careful what he was asking for because that's more important to me than anything else. As it turns out, we've had many deep conversations that have forced us to look at our issues, talk about how it effects our relationship, and what we can do to use what we learn to make our relationship even better. There's many times I wish I could just have you sit in on one of our conversations so you can see how good it can be. One of the things that I shared with Paige today is that no man has ever offered such detail about why he loves me. Chris does this and I have learned things about myself that I hadn't noticed.

I started Dating Success Technology because I want everyone to be as happy as Chris and I are. I'm doing everything I can to help you discover your inner ability to create all the love and magic you want. This newsletter is part of that desire as are the courses I've developed.

Have you seen my video on the topic of how to get a man to open up? Maybe you can use my technique to have the same kind of heartfelt conversations Chris and I enjoy. For those who have read "Men Made Easy", you might want to re-read that part so you can refresh your memory of how to get a man to share. He probably won't be as open as Chris is, but if you can give a man the safety of opening his heart, he's going to think you're pretty special.

5) Sign Up For The Committed Couple's Newsletter
If you're married or in a committed relationship you'll want to
move over to that newsletter. You can sign up for the Committed
Couples Newsletter here

With much love,

Kara Oh
The Heart Specialist™

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