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July 13th, 2008

Life is such a gift when we get out of our own way. Most of my problems are cooked up in my own thinking and I've always wished I had a wise friend that I could call whenever I wanted to, someone I could trust to give me good advice. Do you do the same thing? Well, I'm really excited that I can now offer you that wise friend who's by your side with solid, objective advice. You can find out what I mean in the first article below. If you want a great read that shows you in story form how we mess ourselves up with our thinking and how to stop doing it, I think you'd like The Magician's Way. (You can only order it directly from the author, who lives in Australia, but it arrives fairly quickly.)

In this article:

1) Now I Can Be There For You... All The Time
2) How Would It Feel To Have A Man Say This To You
3) So Many Of You Want To Be Fabulous
4) Heart Connection Via A Hair Cut

1) Now I Can Be There For You... All The Time

How often have you felt confused by men? How often have you wished you could be more self-confident when dating? How often have you ignored those red flags that you knew where there and ended up being hurt? How often have you second guessed yourself and guessed wrong? And how often have you wished you had a wise friend you could talk to? Now I can be that, and more, for you.

Beginning today, you can now ask me for advice or a second opinion... or anything else you may wish to talk to me about any time you need to. I've just launched a new service that will enable you to feel fully supported, date with more confidence, interact with men and know what you're doing... all because you can ask me for advice before you make a mistake... before you waste another minute on the wrong man... before you blow it with Mr. Right.

I've been struggling this year to figure out how I can be of greater service to you and it was right in front of my nose all this time. You see, I've been working personally online with 3 different women living in 3 different countries for several months now. Ordinarily, when I mentor someone I do this over the phone. But because of time differences and expensive long distance phone charges, these 3 women and I have been working via email. The results have been exceptional. So now I've created a way for you to easily and quickly enjoy the same individual personal support.

If you want just occasional advice, you can learn more here

If you want to feel more confident and secure because you'll have me sitting on your shoulder (so to speak), helping you avoid future mistakes, you can learn all about my Extra, Special Offer here

I look forward to being your Online Relationship & Dating Coach

2) How Would It Feel To Have A Man Say This To You?

I watched My Big, FAT Greek Wedding on TV last week. It's such a fun movie. It's so real because we watch her go from completely insecure to a glowing woman. At one point, when she asks him why he loves her, he says, "Because I came alive when I met you." Don't you want to have a man feel that way about you? You can if you lighten up, relax and have fun, instead of taking everything so seriously, let him be the man, and you, just sit back and enjoy being a woman.

If you know you're not in that mode of being, if you're burned out, stressed, exhausted, tired, feeling old,and unattractive, you need to take a look at The Smart Woman's Guide To Finding Love. Why? Because once you've completed each step, you'll feel younger, be (and have) more fun, be more alive and vibrant... all of which will make him "come alive" because he'll fall in love with you. Some steps you've already done, but I recommend you go back and revisit them because each time, you'll learn something you missed before.

To see each step in The Smart Guide To Finding Love just go to DatingSuccessTechnology.com and see what the steps are.

2) So Many Of You Want To Be Fabulous

You shocked me. When I wrote about my friend Lisa's program, Over 40, Fit & Fabulous, in the June 26 newsletter, an amazing number of you signed up for her f r e e program. I know I want to be Fit & Fabulous, and apparently a lot of you do, too.

Lisa is a living embodiment of everything I teach: "Be your most glorious, 'fabulous' self, and you will automatically be happier. Then, without any extra effort, you'll be more attractive to new men, or to the man you're with, and even to potential new women friends."

We had lunch this week to work on an upcoming special (and for sure, fun) teleseminar where she'll tell us more about her program. So mark your calendar for August 26. I'll be telling you more about this special event in the coming weeks. If you haven't already, go on over to Over Forty, Fit & Fabulous and get started with for her "fabulous" offer.

4) Heart Connection Via A Hair Cut

I formed a Heart Connections Group on Facebook a short time ago. The goal is for people to become more aware of the need and benefits of creating heart connections and then share with other members. Here's my most recent post:

My elderly, frail mother fell and broke her hip a few weeks ago and now is in a wheelchair needing care 24 hours a day. And her mind is slipping. I think she's preparing to say good-bye in her own simple way. I know she has a great deal of fear about dying and I suspect that allowing her mind to check out is a pleasant way to leave this plane without having to concern herself with her fear of the unknown.

For years I've been the only one to cut her white curly hair. She hadn't had a haircut since before her fall. So I went over last week and cut her hair. It was obvious that she was enjoying the attention and I felt my heart gently connecting to hers. It didn't matter that she forgot most of what she was trying to say mid-sentence. Words are not necessary for hearts to connect.

I've carried a warm spot in my heart ever since the day I cut her hair. It's hard but sweet to help her transition into her "next" life.

So I invite you to notice when you feel a heart stirring, a warm fuzzy moment with another person, an extra special connection with a friend or family member... I had one the other day watching an article on a morning talk show.

A little girl was saved from drowning by a man and for her entire life, she's wanted to thank him. She found him and he was invited to be on this show, led to believe that his wife's charity work was going to be honored, but it was all about this woman thanking him. And the amazing thing is that his wife worked at this woman's dentist and they'd known each other, not realizing that her husband was the mysterious man who saved her life when she was a little girl. My heart just welled up and I connected with their humanity. When that happens, it's truly a moment with God.

Please share your insights, questions or thoughts on any of the articles above. I enjoy knowing how you're growing. You can use this contact form.

Inspiring you to love,

Kara Oh