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June 10th , 2008

What if you could perform magic? I don't mean tricks like pulling silk scarves by the yard out of your sleeve but magic that can make you and those around you more joyful? You have that power within you, right now, this very moment. All you need to do is release it, like a Genie being released from a bottle.

In this issue:
1) You Are A Magical Being
2) What's Magic Got To Do With Love?
3) Free Video Course - Tell Me What You Want
4) Are You Looking For A Spiritual Man?
5) My Magical Friend's Dream-Come-True

1) You Are A Magical Being
You are a living being who can think, make choices, feel emotions... That's magic. Your smile can make another person feel safe... That's magic. Looking into a man's eyes, even from across a room, for slightly longer than would be expected, will cause him to begin to think about you, even if he would not have noticed you on his own... That's magic.

You can choose your state of being, which automatically changes your chemistry for good or bad... That's magic. Your joy, sadness or anger can be felt by a room full of people the moment you walk into a room... That's magic. Your happiness become a magnet for others, just as surely as a magnet attracts steel... That's magic. You can take a dumpy, grumpy state of being and begin to sing or dance and, within moments, become giddy with girlish delight... That's magic.

This week's member assignment was to look at all the ways you are magical. Why not think about that and decide to share your magic the next time you're out with others. Play with it, watch others respond to you, spread joy. My ex-husband used to call me Tinkerbell, spreading Fairy Dust. Why not see if you can spread Fairy Dust and transform a room full of people. You can make a heart connection with everyone in the room without ever speaking to most of them.

Your joy is filled with positive energy that can be felt by others... You can make a difference just by being happy. With every particle of Fairy Dust you sprinkle, your confidence will grow because when your heart is focused on spreading magic, you can't feel insecure. An open heart can't feel insecure. Joy replaces insecurity and instantly relaxes others... That's magic, real, honest to God magic.

2) What's Magic Got To Do With Love?
Since love can't really be defined, and because we feel it so deeply, and because it takes up so much of our energy and attention and desire... that seems pretty magical to me. But from a more practical standpoint – What's in it for me? – the magic is in how we can influence another to fall in love with us and then stay in love with us.

It's magical that by being happy you can go from invisible to visible to most men. It's magical that by allowing a man to be your hero, he'll find you more attractive. It's magical that by appreciating a man and letting him know that you find his masculine capabilities admirable, he can fall in love with you. Simply put, if you can make a man feel like a man, you magically stand out among most other women as someone exceptional because so few women know how to do this simple thing.

I don't talk about my book much but if you want the details on how to make a man feel like a man and raise the probability that he'll fall in love with you, you really should read Men Made Easy. There are three ways you can get a copy. Forget that it seems like it's aimed at married women. It's not. It's aimed at any woman who wants a man to fall in love with her and keep him in love:

3) Free Video Course - Tell Me What You Want and Receive aF R E E Gift - Dating Basics
Because so many of you have viewed the videos I've shared in the last couple of newsletters I've decided to create a F R E E 6-Course Video Series on topics of your choosing. I've taken topics from your responses when you signed up to receive this newsletter and added 2 blank boxes for more suggestions. I want to give you exactly what you want so the videos will be of greatest benefit. When you give me your suggestions you'll be put on the list to receive a F R E E copy of my new course, Dating Basics, Everything You Need To Date Smarter (a $57 value). So go ahead and give me your top topics here

4) My Magical Friend's Dream-Come-True
I have a friend who had a dream and has magically made it a reality. She wanted to make a difference in the lives of women and children in Rwanda. So she set about finding a way to go there, teach them how to copy with the tragedies they live with each day, bring them joy, and even help them purchase a goat, which is more meaningful to them than you can imagine. I'd love for you to visit her site and see what she's created with her non-profit: CreateGlobalHealing.com
She also has two other websites to help you manifest more magic in your life:
TheGraceProccess.com
And I didn't even know she had this site: MagicalLiving.com

I wish you a heart full of magic this week...

Please share your insights, questions or thoughts on any of the articles above. I enjoy knowing how you're growing. You can use this contact form.

Inspiring you to love,

The Heart Specialist^(TM)

Kara Oh
Your Relationship Mentor

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