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March 25, 2008

I'm finding that working with some you individually over the phone makes a big difference in your dating progress and personal lives. That's why the next three who order any of my four courses will also receive a *FREE* 30-minute Personal Dating Diagnostic to get you going. It's springtime and the Liquid Amber trees outside our living room window are beginning to show green buds, the birds are sharing their excitement to be alive and the bees are buzzing. This has inspired me to assist more of you to enjoy having someone in your life to share all this natural beauty at this time of year... when love is in the air. A good place to start would be with my course: Let The Real You Shine Through

In this issue:

1) Receive my personal help *FREE* for 30-minutes when you order Let The Real You Shine Through
2) Join My Facebook Group
3) The Good Thing About An Older Woman's Body
4) My Birthday Party

1) Let The Real You Shine Through

No matter what stage of dating you're in, the less Glow Flow you've got, the less happy, less attractive, and less excited about life you'll be. Whether you're just thinking about dating, are actively meeting men, or in love with a great guy and wanting to keep your relationship moving forward, every aspect of relating to men will improve when you order my course, Let The Real You Shine Through.

If you're not good about giving yourself gifts, this is your perfect opportunity to change that because there's no better gift you could give yourself. If you're good at gifting yourself, but not usually with things that give you lasting enjoyment, then giving yourself this course will expand your level of happiness for the rest of your life. Why? Because you'll learn how to transform your outlook on life, become magnetically attractive, and expand your ability to love and be loved... so much so, you'll wonder where all that love has been hiding.

To get started on this fascinating journey become a member if you're not already (so we and the other members can communicate on the Member Forum), then order Let The Real You Shine Through right here and begin improving your love life tonight. And don't forget my Special Offer! For the first 3 who order, I'll include a 30-minute *FREE* Personal Dating Diagnostic!

2) Join My Facebook Group

Have you discovered Facebook yet? It's quite fun because it's all about being able to ask a total stranger to be a friend (as well as those you already know), swap messages with a photo included which makes it feel more personal, send a virtual bottle of wine (as Jayne Neagle did to me Sunday morning), and even to form a group... which I did last week.

So consider this an official invitation to be my Friend on Facebook and join my group, Dating After 30... (40, 50, 60?). If you don't have an account, it's easy, costs nothing and doesn't take long to set one up. You can offer suggestions and make comments to me and others in the group, share opinions, good and bad experiences, and write on my Wall. Loads of fun... After you set up your Facebook account, do a search for Kara Oh and you'll reach my page. Be sure and put a photo up when you create your account. It just seems weird when there's just a big question mark.

3) The Good Thing About An Older Woman's Body

Some of you may already be sitting up in your chair, ready to take me on, ranting that there's nothing good about our bodies getting older. None of us like what 'entropity' does to our body (that's entropy and gravity combined). We'd all like to look like we did when we were in our 20's. But alas, that's not possible. Since there's no point in being upset by it, why not just embrace and honor the positive side of learning better how to think, feel, and live as we get older. First, it's such a freeing feeling to know that you no longer have to be on display. I was much more self-conscious and insecure when my body was supple and taut. (Too bad I wasn't able to fully enjoy how good I had it back then.) Now, I do everything I can to stay healthy, vibrant and vital, then relax and simply enjoy being me.

While it is undoubtedly true that fewer men will find you attractive as you get older, the ones that you should consider having in your life have also been learning how to live better and enjoy life more. Not only are they much better able to appreciate and enjoy an emotionally healthy older woman, but these are men who will like you just the way you are... that is, if you've developed your Glow Flow to attract them into your life. An older woman whose energy is blocked is either unattractive or invisible to men. But, if you have that magical glow that is so attractive to men, and you catch the interest of a great guy, then he's happy with how you look. And when you become a couple and are enjoying the physical side of being in love, he's into you and that's all you need to know. He's fallen for the woman you are and not just a pretty face. This is what a long-term relationship can be built upon and it is easier with the right person when you get older and wiser with fewer distractions for both of you.

Before meeting me, Chris, my fiance', dated younger women. Why? Because he could! How could I blame him? But now that he's fallen in love with me, he tells me all the time that I'm beautiful and that I'm now the standard of beauty for him... the benchmark to which he compares other women. He enjoys looking at gorgeous young women more than ever (that means his blood is still flowing), but he points out that he has learned over time how much better all women look to him the safer and better he feels at home with me. He really does love me for who I am, and we find ourselves relaxing together and taking more time to enjoy just being alive.

Older men like Chris have learned with age that those younger women don't have the deeper qualities that make a woman a good companion. While older men who are successful tend to get caught up in the excitement and ego trip of dating a younger woman, they seem to eventually grow up and realize that those "cute young things" are too much work - more and more as time goes on. I tell you this not to brag but to let you know that this can happen for you as well. Get that Glow Flow going, fall in love with who you are as a woman, and begin to enjoy your body for what it is, the vessel that holds your beautiful spirit.

4) My Birthday Party

Chris threw me a party to celebrate my 60th birthday on March 14th. It was a wonderful way to transition into the next phase of my life... which is turning out to be the best, most interesting and certainly the most love-filled. I've put some photos of the party here but unfortunately, Chris was taking photos so there aren't any of him. I'd love to have had one from when we did or swing dance to top off the talent show and start the dancing. I have included a few from our recent ski trip at Heavenly Valley in Tahoe as well.