It made me laugh when I first wrote that title. What came to mind was: You Don't Have To Be A Skinny Butt. Just my silly child mind coming out to play.

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Because you're reading this, it's a given that you're either thinking about dating and not quite out the door yet, you're actively dating, or you've got a man and you want to either keep him or get him to want to commit to marriage, or, I know a few of you who are trying to win back an ex. If there's another situation then send me a note. But no matter where you are, if you are looking for your true love and a long-term committed relationship, you know you need to be as attractive as you possibly can. No man will see your beautiful spirit if the outside isn't healthy and fit. You'll actually be pretty much invisible to men.

Bottom line is that you want to "attract" a man. So how attractive do you feel? You can do a quick fix with a new hair style, a make-up make-over, a few new pieces to update your wardrobe... but that body of yours. How do you feel about that? Unless you're completely pleased with your body, a quick fix won't work. Most women I know are a little bit or a lot over weight. I'm here to tell you, as an expert on men, you don't need to be skinny but you do need to be healthy. When you feel healthy you feel good about your body. When you feel good about your body you are like a magnet to men. And life is just happier.

I have a friend who is such an inspiration. Her name is Lisa Crisalle. I'd been watching her and her husband grow their health and nutrition business for a while. But I finally met her when she had just announced that she was going to start training to compete in Figure Competitions. She seemed fit to me then but oh, my gawd!, you should see her now. She is the poster child for fitness and that means for all women, not just women over 40. I saw her at a party recently and she knocked my socks off.

She has a program called Over Forty, Fit, & Fabulous! So I'm going to start doing her Mind, Body & Nutrition program because, even though my weight is almost where I want it, I'm not quite where I want to be.

Won't you join me in finally getting as fit as I know you want to be? You can start right now by signing up for her F R E E Goodies to get you started. I signed up just now myself. I'm excited to see what she has beyond the F R E E starter kit because I'm going for it. How about you? Shall we do it together? If you want, we could form a little support group to share our progress. Let me know if you want to participate and if enough of you want to do this, I think I can convince Lisa to work with us as a group. Get her F R E E eBook, Articles and information here and let's get started on getting Fabulous right now.

I'm here to help you have the confidence and skills to enjoy the relationship of your dreams. Inspiring you to love, The Heart Specialist